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Features: Q— Photos and Inquiry by Julie Wiatt

How can we make a peaceful world for our children?

BY JULIE WIATT

Carlton Smith: "It's going to be hard to do because you look at TV and there's nothing but sex and violence on. Right now the president is talking about going to war, and children are being taught that violence is the way. And in the black community I think we have a long way to go because the people have been taught to think a certain way, almost programmed. I've spent many days riding my bike and trying to figure out what to do. As long as the people who control the money control what's going to happen in the future, there's nothing we can do. I think as far as the war goes, when they start shipping blond haired blue eyed boys back in body bags then the war will stop." I don't know what the answer is. I wish I knew."

 

John Carter: "I don't know. A miracle will have to occur in the human consciousness. We're carnivorous animals and we can be made sweet, to behave, like her [John's dog], but the beast still emerges from time to time. People have been trying to figure it out for ages. I think we need to know ourselves and not sugar coat what we are. You know, peaceful means do work, Gandhi and Martin Luther King demonstrated that, but it takes more discipline and character than going to war does."

Ferial Welsh: "Oh God. I come from a troubled country (Palestine.) I used to believe, I think I still believe it, that coming close to nature gives you a certain peace inside. I truly believe people who are close to nature are less violent. And good parenting, more time with kids, even half an hour a day quality time will help. And living simply. Teach them to appreciate the little things. Then they are satisfied and not greedy. This is it: If you can be satisfied with what you have you don't crave what you don't have."

Naureen Shahid: "If we live with love together and help everyone and we are broad-minded and cooperative with everyone and we have to look at other children like our own children. We should live with peace so our children will live with peace."

 

 

Jamila Jackson: "Positive energy goes a long way. We could try to exude our positive energy to others and respect the power and importance of our planet and pass that down to our children, make sure they see us setting that example. I think also we could all try to consciously to develop a relationship with God. Regardless of what our religion is, we can express our appreciation for being alive. We could appreciate why we're here and help our children do that too, without forcing them, just guiding them. We could also influence our peers in the same way: recommend books, inviting them to church or meditate with you, things like that."

Gabe Barouh: "We shouldn't use military actions to deal with other countries' problems." Nick Brown: "We can make a peaceful world by instead of going to war with Iraq, trying to work it out without going to war." Gabe Fonte: "Use our words instead of actions."

Doug Bogen: "I don't have children myself, but I guess generally, find a way to make the government responsive to the real needs of the people, including a healthy environment, healthy quality of life. Another point is we need to have more honest discussion of issues in the media and that kids need to have a sense that they're being talked to honestly."

Karolina Bodner: "I think it's extremely important for kids that the adults around them are working for peace and model that for kids. It begins of course with the family. Family and classrooms should practise peaceful conflict resolution. What kids often hear is it's always someone else's fault. They hear adults placing blame, posing enemies. It's important to take personal responsibility in large and small ways. When parents tell the kids to be peaceful, but don't model it, the kids never really learn to do it themselves. We don't realize how much we focus on problems, but we can instead focus on cooperative solutions. Retain joy and humor everyday. Hold onto things that make you feel more in control. Teach kids that they can't control others' actions but they can control their own reactions."

 

 

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